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How to find a groom in islam?

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4 Apr, 2022

How to find a groom in islam?

••• It is very scary to marry a girl to a non-bearded / beardless / smoker / ungodly person! A

*** Money of the pot party - Do not marry a girl to a man of bad character by looking at money and wealth / wealth. Gather as much news as you can about the pot before getting married. Similarly, do not marry a girl of bad character. It is important to find out about each other.

*** Providing accurate information about the bride / groom is not a gossip at all. Because the lives of two people depend here. The future of future children depends. On the other hand, the one who hides the correct information and praises the marriage by falsely praising it will face severe punishment in the Hereafter.

*** If the mother-father does not want to give the girl to the deendar, namazi, bearded pot, then what should be done for the girl?

*** If a parent directs against the Shariah, it cannot be accepted. God willing

و ان جاهدك علي ان تشرك بي

Surah Lokman 15.

In the light of this verse, no instruction of parents who do not follow the Shariah can be obeyed. So it is the duty of the daughter to reject the proposal of the parents at that moment if the parents want to marry a person of immoral / dishonest character.

*** No parent has the right to marry a girl without her consent. " Said the Prophet.

Sahihul Bukhari 5136

Sahihul Jame 8461

Sahih Muslim

*** What to do for a girl:

1. Parents will be told directly that they will marry a devout, prayerful, bearded and non-smoker. On the contrary, she will not marry any boy.

2. If the parents reject the condition of the daughter, then the daughter should be explained to her parents by the uncle / guardian of the society / relatives and dear friend and person of the parents.

3. Even if that doesn't work, the girl will have to complain to a trusted public representative and ask for their help.

4. If there is tension and excess in all this, then the girl should take recourse to the court of law.

5. If there is no good result in anything and the parents force the unmarried / smoker / characterless / alcoholic / usurer / bribe taker / bastard to marry the boy according to their choice then the girl will refuse and she will not marry. Marriage will not be valid without his permission.

. If one has to leave one's parents in order to preserve one's religion / righteousness and character, then so be it. That is the ultimate. Under no circumstances can a parent's unconstitutional order be accepted.

. Parents who make anti-Sharia orders may be forced to marry off their daughter to a deendar pot on the orders of the court or the court may give the marriage to a deendar pot under their supervision. In this case, the role of public representatives is more important.

*** In the midst of all this, InshaAllah Allah will find a way and make it easy.

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