Causes and remedies for divorce(Talaq) in Islam
The word talaq means to be separated, to be free from bondage, etc. Divorce in terminology means 'loosening the bonds of marriage' or loosening the strong bonds of marriage. That is, the husband severing all relations with his wife. In order to protect both husband and wife from disaster in life, the opportunity of divorce has been kept in Islam. When there is extreme conflict between husband and wife, when it is absolutely impossible to live a peaceful and sweet life together, when the relationship becomes bitter, when one's mind becomes alienated from each other in such a way that there is no possibility of reconciliation between them. ; Just then, the final resort was to divorce. InshaAllah I will try to present the reasons for divorce in this article.
Women have a dignified position in Islam. That is why Islam allows a certain number of divorces for the husband. The husband will have the opportunity to use the word at most twice to warn the wife. After using the word for the first two times, there is an opportunity to correct the mistake and take the wife back. But for the third time, there is no such vacation.
Basically, the Sunni rule of divorce is to give one divorce at a time. Then wait up to three seasons. If the marriage takes place, then the husband can take his wife back within the waiting period. And if there is no marriage, then the marriage will break up after three seasons (iddat) have passed. If the husband and wife want to take it back then they can take it back through new marriage. In this way, if necessary, the husband can give a second divorce. Then wait again for three seasons. If you want, you can take it back within the waiting period, otherwise the marriage will break up. At the end of the waiting period, he will be able to get it back through a new marriage. Islam has made arrangements to take back the wife after two divorces. But after three divorces, this opportunity is no more.
Islam has made it permissible to grant a divorce for a valid reason (Baqarah 2/229) . However, it must be three divorces in three tuhurs (in purity). God says,
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'O Prophet! When you divorce wives, divorce them according to the waiting period, and count the waiting period. And fear Allah, your Lord. Do not evict wives from their homes after divorce, nor should they leave their husbands' homes. Unless they are engaged in blatant prostitution. These are the limits of Allah. Whoever transgresses the limits set by God, then he has wronged himself. You do not know, maybe Allah will find a way (compromise) after that ' (Talaq 75/1) .
In this case, there are numerous reasons for divorce. I will try to give a brief description of it, InshaAllah.
1. Satan's persuasion: Divorce has been taking place at the instigation of Satan for ages. Satan prefers divorce. Because it creates division among Muslims. It is all kinds of mischievousness in the world of religion. Every evening Iblis interrogates his companions about this. Narrated Jabir (R), he said the Prophet (sm) said,
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Iblis used to place his seat on the water and send his army. He is the one who gets the closest to her, the one who causes the most fitna. One of them came and said, I have done such and such thing. He says you did nothing. Then another came and said, I have done all kinds of deception with such and such. I even separated his wife from him. Then the devil draws him closer to him and says yes, you are very good. Rabbi A'mash said, "I think he said, then the devil embraces him." [1]
2. Husband-wife discord: In our country, less educated or more educated women in most families are reluctant to obey their husbands. Because the wife is chasing after the job in order to become self-reliant. She doesn't care about her husband when she gets a job. Disagreement is created. Eventually it is resolved through divorce. Sometimes it is done by the wife and sometimes it is done by the husband. This would not have happened if you had done good deeds out of fear of Allah. As Allah the Almighty said,
مَنْ عَمِلَ صَالِحًا مِّنَ ذَكَرٍ وأُنْثَى وَهُوَ مُؤْمِنٌ فَلَنُحْيِيَنَّهُ حَيَاةً طَيِّبَةً وَلَنَجِمَم
"Whoever does righteous deeds, whether male or female, while he is a believer, We will surely give him a holy life, and We will certainly reward them with a better reward than their deeds" (Nahl 16/96) .
3. Deviation from Islam: The main issue or onset of discord between husband and wife is due to deviation from the path of Allah. That is why all the problems, disunity and separation in the family are due to deviating from the path of Allah. Narrated from Abu Huraira (R), he said, the Prophet (sm) said,
فعر مسشاء فيانجا خاهاء فهمشاه های باشهما ويندى | فِيْهأَلِ السََّّمَاءِ ََّّنَ يَبْغِضُ فُلَانًا فَأَبْغِضُوْهُ قَالَ فَيُبْغِضُوْنَهُ ثُمَّ تُوْضَعُ لَهُ الْبَضْضَاءْأَ
When Allah loves a servant, He calls Jibreel and says, "I love such and such, so love him." He said, 'As a result, Gabriel fell in love with him. Then he declares in the heavens that Allah loves such and such, so love him. As a result, the people of heaven love him. He said that then acceptance was kept for him in the land. And when he dislikes a servant, he calls Jibreel and says, "I dislike such and such, so dislike him." He said, 'As a result, Jibril disliked him. Then he proclaimed among the people of the heavens that Allah hates such and such. So you dislike him. ' He said, 'As a result, they dislike him. Then he is condemned on earth. [2]
At present, due to the spread of non-Islamic education, a class of Muslims remain irreligious even after being educated. Gradually they drifted away from the religion of Allah. As a result, material progress is key to them. Religion matters to them. And they are accustomed to living as they please. Chaotic and unhindered movement leads to family unrest. At one stage his solution came through divorce. Because sin and disobedience narrow the worldly life and sustenance. And if one is firm in obedience and Islam, one's sustenance will increase. Life is comfortable. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): .
4. Abandoning Ibadat: Sometimes the husband performs salat and the wife abandons salat or is in the opposite position. In this, the performer of salat wants to bring the other person back to the religion and worship. But the opponent is not willing to accept. The result is disaster. Narrated Mu'adh bin Jabal (R), the Prophet (sm) said,
أُخْبِرُكَ بِرَأْسِ الْأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ وَعَمُوْدِهِ وَذِرْوَةِ سَنَامِهِ قُلْتُ بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ اللهَََِِ
'Shall I not inform you of the origin, the pillar, and the apex? I said, yes, O Messenger of Allah! He said that the root of all work is Islam, the pillar is salat and the highest peak is jihad. [3]
Jaber (R) said, I heard the Prophet (sm) say, the difference between the servant and shirk and kufr is to leave the salat '. [4]
There are many Muslim families who are careless in performing salat or do not believe that salat is a pillar or pillar of religion. Again, many people perform salat but do not give importance to performing salat in jama'at. Husband or wife performing irregular salat. These are one of the main causes of marital breakdown. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): إِنَّ الصَّلَاةَ كَانَتْ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ كِتَابًا مَوْقُوتًا .
He further said, فَوَيْلٌ لِلْمُصَلِّينَ الَّذِينَ هُمْ عَنْ صَلَاتِهِمْ سَاهُونَ, 'Therefore woe to those salats who are indifferent to their salat' (Ma'un 106/5) . In his commentary on the verse, Ibn Katheer (may Allah be pleased with him) said: [5]
Abu Huraira (ra) narrated, he said, the Prophet (sm) said, والذي نفسي بيده لقد هممت أن آمر بحطب فيحطب ثم آمر بالصلاة فيؤذن لها ثم آمر رجلا فيؤم الناس ثم أخالف إلى رجال فأحرق عليهم بيوتهم والذي نفسي بيده لو يعلم I swear by the One in whose hand is my soul, I wish to order the collection of firewood. Then I instructed to establish salat. Then the call to prayer should be given. Then I give the responsibility of leading the people to one person. Then I went to the people and set fire to their houses. My life in the hands of that great being, I swear! If any of them knew that,[6]
It is natural for the family problems of such ungodly people to increase. The devil plots them into family separation. The end result is divorce.
. Haram earning: Haram earning is another reason for the increase in divorce trend in the society. On the one hand, it is like being deprived of God's mercy. On the other hand, no worship of a person nourished by haraam earnings is accepted. Narrated Abu Huraira (R), the Prophet (sm) said,
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Glory be to God, He does not accept anything except what is holy. And Allah has commanded the believers as He has commanded His Messengers. He said, 'O Messengers! Eat of the good things, and do righteous deeds. Surely I know what you do ' (Muminun 23/51) . He further said, 'O you who believe! Eat of the good things that We have provided for you ' (Baqarah 2/162) . Then he mentioned a man who traveled a long way. As a result, he has dusty gray hair. Then he raised his hand towards the sky and said, 'O my Lord! But his food is haraam, his drink is haraam, his clothes are haraam and he eats haraam. So how can his Doa be accepted? [7] Allah further said,
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'O you who believe! Fear Allah, and give up what remains of your demand for usury, if ye are indeed believers. If you do not, then prepare for war with Allah and His Messenger. And if you repent, then you will get your capital. Do not oppress and do not be oppressed ' (Baqarah 2 / 26-289) .
Despite such provisions, many do not care. As a result, God's wrath begins. In the arrogance of money, husband or wife becomes reckless. Unrest and disunity started among them. The end result is divorce.
. Unveiling: Men and women of many Muslim families are immersed in arrogance. They walk on the road like shameless. Basically, this is also included in Kabir's sin. Muslim narrows life. God says,
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'And stay in your homes. Do not show off your beauty like the women of the previous Jahili era. Establish salat and pay zakat and obey Allah and His Messenger. O family of the Prophet! Allah only wants to remove the disgrace from you and to purify you completely ' (Ahzab 33/33) .
He also said, ياأيها النبي قل لأزواجك وبناتك ونساء المؤمنين يدنين عليهن من جلابيبهن ذلك أدنى أن يعرفن فلا يؤذين وكان الله غفورا رحيما- 'O Prophet! Tell your wives, and your daughters, and the wives of the believers to draw their cloaks over themselves. This will make it easier to recognize them. As a result, they will not be harassed. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful ' (Ahzab 33/59) . He added:
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And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty. And they should not reveal their beauty except what is revealed. They should put their head covering over their chests. And they should not reveal their beauty except their husbands, fathers, fathers-in-law, their own sons, husband's sons, brothers, nieces, nephews, nieces and nephews, their own faithful women, their own rightful maids, lustful men and children, except those who are not aware of women's private parts. And they should not move in such a way that their hidden beauty is revealed. And O you who believe! All of you turn to Allah so that you may be successful ' (Noor 24/31) .
At present most of the women are like the naked, shameless, brazen women in their dress, mannerisms. They go out and decorate with perfume. They themselves are attracted to men and men are attracted to themselves. Narrated Abu Huraira (R), he said, the Prophet (sm) said,
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'Two classes of people are hellish, whom I have not yet seen. 1. A community that has a long stick in its hand like a cow's tail, with which they will beat people. 2. Women wearing nude clothes, who will attract men to themselves and themselves will be attracted to men. Their heads will be like camels with curved shoulders. They will not enter Paradise. They will not even get the fragrance of Paradise. But the fragrance of paradise can be found so far away. [8]
. Traveling without mahram: There are many Muslim families who visit their women without mahram. Especially in different colleges and universities, giving girls the opportunity to travel without mahram or pushing them to the place of residence is the name of the sin. Narrated Abu Hurairah: He said: The Messenger of Allah (sm) said: There is no way for a man to walk with a woman who is a mahram. / 2369) .
Narrated from Ibn Abbas (R), he said, I heard the Prophet (sm) say,
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'No man should meet a woman alone except a mahram man. No woman should travel alone without a mahram man. A man stood up and said, O Messenger of Allah (sm)! My wife has left for Hajj and I am enlisted in the army to go to war. He said, "Go away and perform Hajj with your wife." [9]
The matter is so important that the Prophet (sm) did not give permission to perform Hajj alone. At various times news is found in newspapers or in the media that the students get involved in illegal relationships in one way or another. Or if they are strangers on a long journey, they are attracted to each other and leave their husbands and engage in extramarital affairs. Thus, at some point, the legal family bond is severed. The lack of veil plays a controlling role in this case.
9. Haram Exhibition: In modern times, dramas and movies are very easily available. The present media cooperates in teaching all the techniques of how to beat the husband, how to keep the mother-in-law down, how to move the sisters away, how to seduce the friend. Even the display of body in the name of dress exhibition, display of women's body in the name of advertisement has taken the shape of an epidemic. The Prophet (sm) has a warning in this regard. Narrated from Jarir Ibn Abdullah, he said:
سَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صُلََّّ اللََهْ وَسَلَّمَ عَنْ نَظْرَةِ الْفُجَاءَةِ فَأَمَرَنِي ْأَنْ أَأَرِفَ بَصَرِي
'I asked Nabi Kareem (sm) about the sudden sighting. He instructed me to take my eyes off him. ' [10]
The degradation and deterioration of moral character due to co-education is indescribable. Children get the opportunity of free association in educational institutions. As a result, they became unruly. Co-education gives a young man or woman the opportunity to build relationships with many people at the same time. As a result, quarrels, acid attacks, murders, etc. started.
The downside of co-education is unrest in marital life. In this education system, every boy and girl gets the opportunity to interact freely with many children. The husband cannot accept the wife and the wife cannot accept the husband unless she is married to the one with whom the so-called love is frozen. Misunderstandings go on throughout life. No one can tolerate anyone. When it comes to love marriage, repulsion is more than attraction between the two. Premarital mischief makes the husband unfaithful. This is how misunderstandings arise and eventually divorce occurs.
10. Joint employment: Men and women increase intimacy with other men due to work in the same workplace. More time is spent with coworkers than with one's own husband. Relatives and non-relatives, a wide mix of men and women in the field of joint work. This is the cause of great fitna and extreme loss of the Muslim family. However, the Shari'ah has strictly prohibited this matter. Even when going out on the road, the Prophet (sm) has instructed to walk along the side of the road. As Abu Usayd Ansari (R) narrates from his father, he heard Rasoolullah (sm) saying, when he came out of the mosque and saw men mingling with women in the street, Rasulullah (sm) said to women,
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'You wait! You should not walk in the middle of the road, but you should walk on one side of the road. After that, as women moved around the walls, most of the time their clothes would get stuck against the walls. [11]
Many walk openly and mingle with men in the middle of the street. Many times women surpass men. Which in many cases brings danger. In such a Damcare movement, women often fall prey to the lust of unruly young men. As a result, one's self-esteem is ruined and the family breaks up.
11. Extensive mixing with relatives: Since there is no Islamic veil, there is free association with close and distant relatives. Cousins, aunts, uncles, cousins, students of the same age or senior siblings, neighbors and siblings meet without hesitation. Allah, the Exalted, has strongly warned the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) while they were the believers. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
Yaayha those who Believers La tdkhlva The Nabi lo yvzn us smart food non spectators missing nah Wilkinson hehehe dytm fadkhlva faza tmtm fantshrva Villa Khaled lhdys the zlkm the yvzy Nabi fysthyy abirun Nasri La ysthyy de Haq vaza saltmvhn provision fasalvhn de surreal curtains zlkm Tribune lqlvbkm vqlvbhn vma كنان لكُمْ ْن تؤْذُوْا رُسُوْلَ اللهِ وَلَا ْْنْكِحُوْا ْْوْاجَهُ مِن بَعْدِهِ أَبَدًا َّنَ ذَلِكَمْ
'O you who believe! Do not enter the house of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) until you have given him permission, and do not wait for food to be prepared for you. But when you are called, enter. Then get out after eating. Don't gossip unnecessarily. It hurts the prophet. But he is ashamed to tell you anything. But God is not ashamed to tell the truth. And if you ask his wives for anything, ask them from behind the curtain. This is the cause of more holiness for you and their hearts. And it is not lawful for you to harm the Messenger of Allah, and to marry his wives after his death. Surely this is a great sin in the sight of Allah ' (Ahzab 33/53) .
Many people do not care about the screen. As a result, they have no gap with cousins, uncles, cousins. Illegal relationship with them in secret. Unable to adapt to later life, the marriage seeks a way to return to the former. Eventually the termination occurs through divorce.
12. Parental disobedience:Many people create unrest in the family by giving priority to the wife over the parents in the hope of being happy with the wife. As a result, there is monomalinya between wife and mother-in-law. Then he left his parents and separated his family. As a result, the curse of the parents caused unrest among them. In the end, the decision is made through divorce. How can he get God's mercy by severing his relationship with his parents? Allah says, وقضى ربك ألا تعبدوا إلا إياه وبالوالدين إحسانا إما يبلغن عندك الكبر أحدهما أو كلاهما فلا تقل لهما أف ولا تنهرهما وقل لهما قولا كريما 'And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and your father Crafts - Be kind to your mother. If one or both of them reach old age with you, Then do not utter the word uh to them and do not threaten them. You talk to them politely. '(Israel 17/23) .
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Amr (R), he said that a person came to the Prophet (sm) and said, جئت أبايعك على الهجرة وتركت أبوي يبكيان فقال ارجع عليهما فقحكهما كما أبكيتهما,' I am a hijacker
I have come to take the oath of allegiance and I have left my parents in a state of weeping. He said, "Go back." Make them laugh like you made them cry '. [12]
[1] . Muslim H / 2613, E.F.Ba H / 748 .
[2] . Muslim H / 2636 .
[3] . Tirmizi H / 2617; Ibn Majah H / 3973, Hasan Sahih .
[4] . Muslim H / 72, E.F.Ba H / 149 .
[5] . Ibn Katheer 6/495 .
[6] . Bukhari H / 744; Muslim H / 651; Ahmad H / 6332 .
[7] . Muslim H / 1015; Mishkat H / 260 .
[8] . Muslim H / 2128; Mishkat H / 3524 .
[9] . Bukhari H / 162; Muslim H / 1341 .
[10] . Muslim H / 2159; Tirmizi H / 260 .
[11] . Abu Dawud H / 5262; Mishkat H / 4627 .
[12] . Abu Dawud H / 2526 .
